Embracing Solo Dating

Solo dating is the act of intentionally going out and doing activities by yourself. 

Even when I was in a relationship, I’ve always embraced solo dating.  I actually preferred it. 

Watching a movie by myself is “me time.” 

It’s absent the awkwardness of getting to know someone on a date.  

In fact, I remember going to see the movie “Kill Bill” on a date several years ago and my date talked through the whole damn movie.  All I wanted to do is enjoy Uma Thurman in all her kick ass badness and the imbecile I was on the date with wouldn’t quit with the lame jokes. 

From that point on, I’ve always had a special affinity for going out and enjoying time to myself. 

That being said, in the court of public opinion, many view solo dating as a negative thing. 

I remember an ex-co-worker mentioning that when she travels for work and has to go to a restaurant by herself, she actually calls her husband so that she doesn’t look like a “loser” sitting alone at a table. 

At the time, I actually pitied her, imaging caring so much about what other people who you don’t know think of you, that you can’t enjoy a meal in your own company?  It’s Sad. 

For me, it’s actually empowering to be able to get out and enjoy an activity without needing to have someone with me.  Self-dating allows me time to thoroughly enjoy the complex flavor profiles of an elevated meal. Watch a movie and take my time trying to figure out what the plot twist will be or sit at a bar and simply people watch.

It’s my time to enjoy me, free from distraction. 

Things to do in Atlanta 

Whether alone or with a friend, one of the things I love most about living in Atlanta is that there’s always something to do.

There’s always an activity suited for blissfully single people such as me, who enjoy a nice solo date as well.

January is no different. 

Just because it’s the coldest month of the year doesn’t mean that there aren’t plenty of things to do in Atlanta in January.   Ranging from cultural events to outdoor adventures, Atlanta offers a variety of fun things to do in Atlanta.  What’s more, these are activities you can enjoy by yourself!

See below for what Atlanta offers in January! 

Your girl Beans’ activity for January?

Now what is Beans’ activity for January? 

Attending the High Museum of Atlanta’s Jazz Fridays.
Yes, I will ask a friend of mine to accompany me, however, if he’s unable to make it, I have absolutely no problem attending on my own.

It’s me time. 

Until next time friends…

Blissfully Single and Yours,